Taking too long
The other night my husband and I were fooling around. Ever since I had my son it’s been really uncomfortable to have sex. So my husband had been using a vibrator on me beforehand to help loosen things up and relax me. We’ll I was EXHAUSTED. I literally was trying to not fall asleep. He wanted to be close and was persistent. It was taking forever because once I’d get into it our son would cry and it would put me out of the mood until he was calmed. This happened literally 5 times. It was so frustrating because I’d almost get there and then we’d stop. It was he’d enough getting there while fighting sleep.
Anyways, my husband all of the sudden goes “it’s no o thing against you but you can’t take more than 20 minutes for something to happen”. I was so embarrassed. I just got up and went to take a shower. Like it’s hard enough being tired all the time and trying to be a sexy wife for him. This embarrassed me.
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.