Validation please!

So I matched with this guy a few months ago and he stopped talking to me so I moved on. About 2 weeks ago he reached out again. We started talking on snap and he explained his situation - he just got out of a fwb that ended with hurt feelings on his side, and his last LTR relationship was a year ago. We started talking on SC and he’s acting and saying things like I miss you and I want to see you before we’ve even met. We live about 2 hours away from each other. And after trying to meet 2 different times, he drives up to my place a few days ago and we hang and hook up.

While at my place he kept saying things like I don’t want a relationship right now, I’m too busy. But then would say things like “how are you still single?” And “you’re the only person I’m talking to” and got jealous when I got a text and asked if it was my boyfriend. I couldn’t tell if he was joking or not, but I felt very confused after this.

Right now it’s been about 3 days and he’s barely messaging me. If I try and reach out he’ll either respond dryly or leave me on read.

I know this might sound really dumb but I’m feeling lots mixed things, and while logically I know it’s not worth my time to think about, it’s really frustrating and I feel slightly used.

Please be as brutally honest as possible. I know it’s dumb.