WWYD?

I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 6 years now.

Within that time frame we did end up splitting because I fell out of love with him. Reason being, he was jobless for I believe about a year and he had no intention to change that. I eventually would pay for everything in the relationship. No dates, gifts, nada from him for maybe more than a year. We spilt and he changed completely. He asked for another chance and I agreed.

Here’s the issue now: we are again in the same place.

He hasn’t had a job for about 8 months. I gave him so much advice and he never took it. From applying for unemployment, to even having to work at something he doesn’t like even if it’s temporary. He is looking for jobs this time but not urgently I guess that’s the best way I can put it. However, this time i’m still very much in love with him. Even though I want so much more from this relationship, I just don’t know what to do. Am I being selfish? He told me I was when I had asked to have a conversation about our current state of our relationship.

What do yall think about my situation? What would you do? Just would like some insight. Thanks ❤️