Nothing for Mother'sDay :(

I am a SAHM of 2 boys 7 and 4. My husband works nights meaning he sleeps during the day. I feel like a single parent. I literally do everything even potty trained our boys. He isn't very helpful but the way he sees it (in my head and from lil comments here and there) he works and brings home the check soo I guess he feels he doesn’t have to do anything else at all.. not even pick up something off the floor or put away the laundry I'm constantly washing. I was hoping to go out to eat for once on Mother's day so I didn't have to cook but my lil one asked for pancakes so I got out of bed to make everyone pancakes. I don't mind cooking.. I actually love to cook.. and I'm not trying to sound ungrateful but one day out of the year I expected my husband to say it's okay babe I got this.. whether he ordered or even attempted to cook them himself would have been amazing. He always makes an excuse to why we cant have an adult night out.. like how can we leave the kids like that.. or we cant go there with them.. not even to the beach... he asks like they aren't ready yet. I feel like it's him.. my kids are fine and if not they need to learn how to be out in public. I don't get it. He didnt even have them make me a card or craft. Money isn't an issue we aren't rich.. but we arent broke. He told me I'm not buying you anything you're not my mother. I just feel soo overworked and not appreciated and then when he wants sex he doesn’t get why I'm not in the mood. I try to be but I'm just not into it. I just really needed to vent this somewhere I wont be judged. I'm the type of person that goes out of my way to make everyone around me happy.