Should I reach out? Haven’t heard from him for 4 days…

This isn’t the first time he has done this! In the past we argue and he won’t reach out for days.

Also, when he’s going through issues (at work or personal) he won’t talk to me. For the most part he tells me he needs space to cool off or tells me “I don’t feel like talking right now…I have so much going on” he will tell me this but by the next day he reaches out in a better mood.

This time we didn’t fight but he was mad. The reason why I know he was mad is because he won’t call me “babe” or a cute pet name. We always call eachother babe. I havent heard from him since saturday. We were talking fine about his dogs and the issues it has given him at home with his mom.

So we were talking fine Saturday morning. He told me good morning at 8am and I didn’t reply until 10am because I was busy.

I clearly told him I was getting ready to go to work.

Then he sounds annoyed and tells me he doesn’t want to go to his family party…

My last text was damn ok. I didn’t know what to say he sounded annoyed of everything and wanted to see if he would reach out … he hasn’t. Sunday came along and that’s the day I see him. Didn’t even follow up with me to ask if we would see each other. He usually lets me know the tjme we will hang out. No response Sunday, Monday, Tuesday or Wednesday. I’m really hurt. He is not active on Instagram either which he is.

Part of me is like I should reach out but idk what to do. Last time i saw him was 2 weeks ago and our sex was horrible. He seemed distant from me. It felt like a routine. Didn’t even last long, wasn’t affectionate with me at all. We fell asleep in my room and didn’t even talk to me. We just had sex and fell asleep.

Something in my gut tells me something is wrong idk what it is. Falling out of love with me? Cheating? Idk but this is giving me anxiety. Idk when he will reach out and if he does what should I even tell him….