I DO NOT SPEAK FOR THE TREES

I am so annoyed at my fiancé right now. He got all these trees that we have to dig holes for, told me he would prep the areas yesterday and now he's saying he has to work on preparing them more and I just don't have the patience for this right now. I've been doing court paperwork all day to try and get some custody back of our 2 year old whos living states away with his bio father, had to call the lawyers, then paperwork to start a new job and I just started my period. The biggest annoyance is him seeming to be annoyed at ME! Like dude you didn't even ask me beforehand if I would be willing to help knowing that I have issues with how hot it gets! (We are talking High 90s up to 110 F and is still in the 70s to 80s at night unless its really really late) I know if I don't help it would probably cause an argument so I just have to freaking deal with it but my god does it feel like he's being selfish. Its about 30 trees. Not even fruit trees. Plus I hate the spots hes putting them. Since he already started prepping thoes spots though cant even really say anything. Dont get me wrong I love him, I just hate that he never even asks me before starting a project that he expects me to help with. Like I have input on it too, I have ideas too! If I am going to be forced to help I should atleast get a say in what trees were getting! Didnt even ask me if I wanted to pick any out myself. Like I have a right to be annoyed about this right? I would love some opinions because I dont know if im just on my period and moody or if this is a good/valid reason to be upset.