How to tell 7 year old about divorce

I would tell them that the break up wasn’t because of them. I would also explain to them that you and your parents have grown apart and that it would be better if you and partner separated that way you two can still show your child a healthy relationship. I would also explain how because they will have a mommy house and your ex partner house they will have double the fun and what not. Let them know they will be able to contact either parent no matter what. Tell them that you love them. Definitely emphasize on they are not the reason for sure. There may be a phase where your child will blame themselves for your divorce. Unfortunately a lot of kids end up blaming themselves.

I would tell them that mommy and daddy will always love you and that you love and respect dad but you both choose to separate .I wouldn't mention that it's not their fault because it's obviously not and once you plant that in head their they will always question it unless your child ask if it's because of them.and assure them that just because mom and dad aren't together doesnt mean your not family.just make sure they feel safe and secure and can always ask questions.