My husband's case manager made him an appointment for next month in Oklahoma City because they do adult autism evaluations. I tried to request off to take him because he has bad anxiety and can't drive places that are more than an hour away and it's a 3 hour drive. My request off was denied. So I can't take him. His case manager says if he can meet her in Tulsa where her office is located than she will drive him the rest of the way. Tulsa is 45 minutes away so my husband is ok with making that drive. My husband said ok and told me had it worked out. I personally don't want him alone in a car for two hours with another woman. I know she's a professional but I just don't feel comfortable with that. I spoke to his mom and she said she could take him but my husband doesn't want her too because he's not talking to her at the moment. They had a falling out and even though she's willing to put it aside to take him he is refusing to talk to her. He has and option. But he rather be alone with his female case manager

Edit: My husband technically doesn't HAVE to go to this evaluation. He's choosing to because his whole childhood teachers were begging his mom to get him evaluated for autism and she never would. He doesn't have to get the diagnosis. He's already receiving help for his anxiety. He's on Ritalin for his ADHD. Nothing would come from an autism diagnosis. He doesn't HAVE to do it. It would be different if this was an appointment he had to go to not choosing to.