I’ve been with my husband 14 years, married for nearly 7. We have two young kids, he’s a great person and a great dad but I just don’t love him anymore. I feel like everything he does and says irritates me. We don’t have anything in common anymore. Anytime I try to talk to him about things it ends in an argument, I feel he lacks emotional intelligence and also the ability to communicate effectively. I don’t want to separate for our kids but I also don’t want to stay in a loveless marriage. At times I’m miserable, other times I feel I could stay and make do. The prospect of being a single parent and managing financially scares me too but all round I just don’t know what to do for the best. Please help me with your wisdom and experiences.