Hi Ladies,

I'm inneed of some advise or maybe this is just a rant, so my husband and I have a baby boy just turned 3 and a half months, I am a stay at home mum and he works full time, he has always been a social butterfly and gose out a few time a week with the boy to the pub and what not, but he promised me he would settle down after baby but this is not the case last night he went out for 1 beer knowing I was struggling with baby not settling and in the middle of a packing to move to a new city, needless to say it was not one beer he arivved home at 2ish this morning and proceeded to comment that he let me down and he's sorry and it's Give and take, while i was still tryingto sooth baby. This morning I asked him to take care of baby so I can have 5 - 10 minutes to have a coffee and wash some bottles and he lost the plot saying "I am helping I'm talking to baby" while I am feeding him so I gave hubby baby and no more then 2 minutes later of baby not settling for him he pipes up saying, "he's still hungry you feed him", so I did and I tried to talk about the chat we had last night about give and take, his comment was I am trying my best but I'm not going to look after him while you sleep in, no more then 5 minutes later he's fast asleep and doesn't want to responed to me, so bub and i have moved to the other side of the house for a breather. I'm getting really tired of this, but every time I bring it up it always ends in a huge argument and I always apologize for over reacting but I feel I'm not, any suggestions on how to the a constructive conversation about this issue?