When me and my husband were dating, he played college football. Was extremely fit. Super attractive. Every girl wanted him and he wanted to date me. There's just something I really liked about so many girls wanting to fuck him. Yet he chose me. We've been together 11 years. He's gained weight. He had surgery several months ago so he has a lot of stretched out fat from surgery he received. He is still my cute hubby but definitely not someone other women turn their heads at anymore. I found it attractive how other women wanted him. It made him more attractive. I guess I wish he was still the man to make other women turn their heads.