Anyone ever feel this way?

After being a single mom for years, I finally put myself out there. Tried dating apps, meeting people in person, etc. and while I’ve met some great men, I haven’t found that chemistry/attraction/connection yet. It’s been 2 years of finally putting myself out there and zero, zip, nada.

I’m curious if there’s another way I should be meeting men? Or do I just let my soulmate find me unexpectedly lol😭 For years I put love on the back burner, was told I gotta put myself out there, and now nothing! Lol

(please pray that my soulmate and I find eachother lmao😂)