I am 30 years old, to answer someone’s comment. Im also married.

I found out Friday that I was pregnant. By Saturday evening, I was bleeding and it didn’t stop. My OB office was closed over the weekend so I waited til Monday to call. By Monday morning my pregnancy test was basically negative. The ob office told me it was a chemical pregnancy and to manage my symptoms. I had told my friend about it because we were going to be pregnant at the same time and I was freaking out.. She just ignored me. Didn’t say anything to me until Monday. She then proceeded to tell me she was upset that her other friend was thinking that she was pregnant too and it was stealing away her joy & spotlight basically. She didn’t ever tell me congrats or sorry or even ask how I was doing after I told her I lost it. Which would explain why she has been so cold towards me too. Even though I wasn’t trying to steal her joy by telling her I was pregnant and then lost the pregnancy…

I called my stepmom about it and she said I was just stressed and was never actually pregnant. That It wasn’t real. That my stress triggered the test. To which I’m not stressed and I had several positive tests. I don’t think it works like that. So I’m left feeling shitty physically & emotionally from my own body failing me and people close to me.