My boyfriend (27) and I have been together for 2 years. Two days ago, I tried asking him to come over so we could have sex but he blew me off because he said he wanted to relax and play video games. Said he would the next day. While we were talking yesterday, he gives me this explanation how his friend (20) and girlfriend are going through a rough patch in their relationship and he’s trying to “soften the blow” to his friend and “teach him how to fix his relationship” so they’ve been playing games together more. The more he talked about it, the more I felt like it was weird and he was involving himself in something that wasn’t his business. But I didn’t really say anything because it’s his friends. Then he starts asking if I’m going to come over by midnight. He asked me at like 10. I said yes. So I figured I would have time to wait for the clothes I wanted from the dryer. He starts texting me 30 minutes after asking if I’m almost ready and starts telling me how he’s going to “start giving me a deadline time from now on and see how it goes”. I reiterated to him that he said midnight and he reconfirmed it. But then at 11:10 when I was ready to go, I asked if he still wanted me to come. He responds and says “well (friend) is going to be on in like 30 mins so”. I was like “so no now???” He starts going off about how he “planned this time with his friend” and how “when he said get there before midnight he meant he wanted me gone by midnight”. I told him that it was stupid for him to blow me off 2 nights in a row just to play video games when he could EASILY tell his friend he’ll just join a little later. He said that playing video games with him is more fun than most things in his life so to stop trying to minimize it and how “sex isn’t important anyways”. He also started going off about how I “always take forever” and how I “turn the 10 minute drive into a 40 mins drive” (def not true) so he can’t rely on me to come over when he wants. And how if he tells me a time, I should still be rushing to come over as soon as I can. Then said to just come over anyways. He apologized for getting mad and stuff. We had sex but I just felt really upset and gross the whole time bc I felt he was only doing it to shut me up. I also was upset because he’ll stay up until 3-4 (which he never does) to play but then always rushes me. He also didn’t text me the rest of the night either. 🫠 I just texted him and said goodnight.