His faith is against BC

We’re getting married soon and because he is Catholic he doesn’t believe in BC and I’m having a problem with that. I’m a Protestant and see no issue with using BC until you’re ready to have a child. I know you can track your ovulation but at the end of the day you’re still playing Russian roulette and I don’t want to do that, and I’m stressing. What do I do? Call off the wedding over this? Secretly get in the pill? I don’t find it’s fair as a man to tell his wife or refuse to even use a condom because it’s what the Catholic Church says. I’ve known Catholics who have used BC and don’t go to hell. I feel it just kind of an extreme belief to be anti BC. Yea God says to be fruitful and multiply, but that doesn’t mean only have sex for procreation or expect pregnancy each time when I don’t want that, especially when you can be in control. Help?