Pregnant and so stressed right now
My friend is telling me to abort my baby because my value in the dating market is going to go down extremely low. He’s like “men are not going to pick me, the mom with two kids two bds to make his wife and they will go to someone younger who doesn’t have any kids” (I’m 26). the man I’m pregnant for right now it doesn’t look like we will have a sustainable relationship, but really I don’t want to get rid of the baby. Idk if I’m just so caught up in my emotions being pregnant, and hurt by men at the same time.. I have had a few abortions in the past, this would be my second baby since I have a child now. I’m afraid of the pill abortion because of how much pain I think it’ll cause. I feel like making an end to my friendship and just literally going ghost on social media if I do have the baby my friend make sense a lot of times but he can be so harsh and anxious he takes the joy out of life. Logically I feel like not having the baby I would completely be done with and free of this already broken relationship… I know that I also want to be married again, and have another baby as well. I feel so torn and heartbroken every day I have nobody to talk to about this.
Yes I don’t want to get rid of my baby I will be so heartbroken all over again I know I will love the baby. Even though when I found out I was scared because my relationship is so new there’s no way I can terminate I don’t have it in me to do it right now tbh. My baby will be 6 years old while I’ll have a new born I’m gonna be alright I just have to believe in myself.
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