Am i in the wrong?

My bf works from home. I’m a nurse and work 12-13 hours on my feet with one 30 minute break at 11:30AM to eat. My bf says that his job he does nothing and just chills the whole day, I’m happy for him.

But last night the fire alarms went off five times so I only got two hours of sleep before my second shift in a row (brutal). I’m usually in charge of cooking and doing laundry, while he takes out the trash and loads the dishwasher. I normally unload the dishwasher lol and wash our bedding and just tidy up in general. I asked him to make dinner for us tonight so he made some soup. I got home, dirty dishes in the sink, dishwasher not emptied in two days, laundry in the dryer that he put in two days ago…. I was super hungry and dizzy (again haven’t eaten since 11:30AM now it’s 8pm)….. so I go to plate mine and his food that he made. He said “oh can u take a shower first before we eat” and I said “no I’m really hungry im just going to eat.” He got mad at me because I didn’t wait for him to finish his video game to eat together. Like I’m sorry I’m not waiting for a game to be finished when I’m literally so exhausted. I also asked if he did the laundry and he got annoyed and thought that was rude of me and how the laundry is my job. Like dude u brag about how u do nothing al day at work besides game and nap… I don’t have that luxury and when I ask for help u say im being rude? There’s been many times I made him dinner and ate by myself while he sat at his desk to eat. I didn’t care. I just did the laundry myself and the dishes…. Then I went in the bathroom and cried while he went on a video game with his friend….Am I in the wrong here???