Husband doesn't want to go to therapy

My husband has problems with just shutting down whenever there's conflict. He doesn't want to work it out. He just shuts down and even leaves the house sometimes. He also tends to push people away and will cause conflicts to do that. It's why he has no friends because he pushes them all away by being an asshole. I suggested therapy last night because he's depressed he has no friends and I'm exhausted with how he chooses to handle conflict. He said he already tried therapy and it didn't work. He was in therapy as a child because he got molested by a babysitter but he had problems with not being allowed to talk about certain things going on at home out of fear of being punished for it and his mom was able to manipulate his therapist in high school to think he was the problem and that he's constantly lying so the therapist stopped believing him. He's convinced all therapy is like that but it isn't.

@ G feel like you're being sarcastic and I'm confused as to why because I don't think anything I posted here was bad