How to make him want me.

Long story short boyfriend and i are doing long distance im going up for a week next week but he still wants me to go up even tho he has ended it today (im in denial). How do i get him to want me what can i do to make him want to grab me and be like damn. Tips and tricks, ive got my lingerie packed but what more can i do.

Also how do i go about getting him to wrap it up if he has been with someone else… if he hasnt im not arsed but if he has i aint wasting my trip but he needs to wrap up.

Please no hate we been together 2 years and ive stood by him through a lot and im not the type of girl to do one night stands so this is my last hoorah if it is definitely the end.