Is he lying?? Cheating etc. All Opinions Neededš”šš¤”
Iāve been with my husband since 2010. Iām 29 and heās 30. We have a toddler and Iām 6mo pregnant with my 2nd. He recently broke up with me and Iām just so baffled tbh. The shit is so crazy to me and just the nerve of it all. He has cheated on me twice and the trust has been total shit. Heās constantly being caught being deceitful about something. Itās either about money thatās being spent, whereās heās at , pictures in his phone āinappropriate onesā , walking about during arguments, turning his location off etc. So recently, long story short .. I saw a number in his call log āon our phone billā that was unfamiliar to me. I didnāt think anything of it tbh because it wasnāt a local number. But what got me was that the phone calls were long as hell. 35, 45, 80, 240 minutes etc. So Iām like wtf? Well when I called it no one picked up but then I texted it and a female messaged me back and just went crazy on me. āStop blowing up my phone and leave us alone , weāre having fun in Houston.ā āHe sucked and fucked meā āHe told me the picture on his phone was his niece and not his daughter , etc. Well, my husband wasnāt with me when she messaged me .. he went to Houston for his job. So I called him immediately and he swore it was a prank on me. Ironically it was April Fools. But what got me was that she had screenshots of him saying āIām 3hrs away from you.ā This was when he was driving up to Houston for his job. She lives in Dallas. He was saying āI love you.ā Etc. But the fact that heās saying itās a prank on me but Iām the one that reached out to her. If it was prank on me .. she wouldāve texted or called me first. So that was the first red flag. Then his friend called me and swore up and down it was prank and that the girl is crazy and that he doesnāt know why she said those things. But again, if it was a prank wasnāt she supposed to say those things? So it just wasnāt making no damn sense! After I got off the phone with his friend I got into my husbandās Snapchat and saw where his friend āthe one I just got off the phone withā messaged him on Snapchat and said āidk why she isnāt picking upā .. talking about the girl. Then my husband said āIām On my way to her now and then Iāll head to you.ā So Iām like wtf. It seems like theyāre trying to do damage control. Why tf is his friend talking about āidk why she wonāt pick up the phoneā and my husband is going to tell him āIām On my way to her nowā if itās a prank! Why is my husband going to see her?!? Sounds like some bs to me. So I wasnāt buying any of it and was sooo pissed and we fought the whole time he was in Texas. He claimed he was staying at that same friendās house but when I asked him to show me the living room or the bathroom .. he wouldnāt. He said he couldnāt show the house because his friend didnāt want it shown bc it wasnāt furnished completely. Iām like āYou must think Iām so damn stupid?!? A grown ass man isnāt going to care if you show me his house if itās going to save your ass with your wife!ā But he wouldnāt show me the house. And I know itās bc he was at that femaleās house. He knew I would see some female shit in there. So then he breaks up with me , turns off his location , and blocks me on everything! And spends like $300 while up there for like 5 days. He was going to Dave and Busters, restaurants etc. When I finally got a hold of him āhe said it was him and his homeboys just hanging out, and that he had to pay for them bc they didnāt get paid yet. ā but it looked like some date type shit with the bitch! But he preceded to tell me that he wasnāt lying, it was a prank , but heās breaking up with me bc of the constant arguing and he has no more fight left in him and that heās not going to keep trying to prove that itās a prank to me. Just a bunch of excuses! He swears thereās no other women and heās leaving because of the fighting. Heās such a gaslighter and manipulater. Even after all that has happened and his actions afterwards .. he swears Iām trippin for even being pissed and not trusting him or his dumb ass friend. And guess what? We share the same phone plan so I see his calls and whoās on there??? That same number. Called multiple times a day. And Iāve confronted him about that too , and he swears sheās a friend and has a man and child of her own. But BS! Theyāre on the phone for hours and sometimes at 4am and even 8am etc. If she has a man , her man isnāt letting her have phone calls with another man that long or at those times. Heās a fuckin liar! Being pregnant , Iām so hurt still. I know in my heart heās lying but it still hurts. I just canāt believe heās treating me this way and acting like the victim. Honestly, Iām writting this post for otherās options and insight. Iām definitely dumb for trying to make it work after the two times he cheated on me and now Iām learning the hard way. Iām definitely so stupid for taking him back. But I would love all the opinions from you ladies. What you think about his story, What you think is going on, thoughts on his friend , etc. Just your thoughts on any of it. Iāll take the rude comments too because I know that I basically asked for this shit to happen smh.
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