Is he lying?? Cheating etc. All Opinions NeededšŸ˜”šŸ˜“šŸ¤”

I’ve been with my husband since 2010. I’m 29 and he’s 30. We have a toddler and I’m 6mo pregnant with my 2nd. He recently broke up with me and I’m just so baffled tbh. The shit is so crazy to me and just the nerve of it all. He has cheated on me twice and the trust has been total shit. He’s constantly being caught being deceitful about something. It’s either about money that’s being spent, where’s he’s at , pictures in his phone ā€œinappropriate onesā€ , walking about during arguments, turning his location off etc. So recently, long story short .. I saw a number in his call log ā€œon our phone billā€ that was unfamiliar to me. I didn’t think anything of it tbh because it wasn’t a local number. But what got me was that the phone calls were long as hell. 35, 45, 80, 240 minutes etc. So I’m like wtf? Well when I called it no one picked up but then I texted it and a female messaged me back and just went crazy on me. ā€œStop blowing up my phone and leave us alone , we’re having fun in Houston.ā€ ā€œHe sucked and fucked meā€ ā€œHe told me the picture on his phone was his niece and not his daughter , etc. Well, my husband wasn’t with me when she messaged me .. he went to Houston for his job. So I called him immediately and he swore it was a prank on me. Ironically it was April Fools. But what got me was that she had screenshots of him saying ā€œI’m 3hrs away from you.ā€ This was when he was driving up to Houston for his job. She lives in Dallas. He was saying ā€œI love you.ā€ Etc. But the fact that he’s saying it’s a prank on me but I’m the one that reached out to her. If it was prank on me .. she would’ve texted or called me first. So that was the first red flag. Then his friend called me and swore up and down it was prank and that the girl is crazy and that he doesn’t know why she said those things. But again, if it was a prank wasn’t she supposed to say those things? So it just wasn’t making no damn sense! After I got off the phone with his friend I got into my husband’s Snapchat and saw where his friend ā€œthe one I just got off the phone withā€ messaged him on Snapchat and said ā€œidk why she isn’t picking upā€ .. talking about the girl. Then my husband said ā€œI’m On my way to her now and then I’ll head to you.ā€ So I’m like wtf. It seems like they’re trying to do damage control. Why tf is his friend talking about ā€œidk why she won’t pick up the phoneā€ and my husband is going to tell him ā€œI’m On my way to her nowā€ if it’s a prank! Why is my husband going to see her?!? Sounds like some bs to me. So I wasn’t buying any of it and was sooo pissed and we fought the whole time he was in Texas. He claimed he was staying at that same friend’s house but when I asked him to show me the living room or the bathroom .. he wouldn’t. He said he couldn’t show the house because his friend didn’t want it shown bc it wasn’t furnished completely. I’m like ā€œYou must think I’m so damn stupid?!? A grown ass man isn’t going to care if you show me his house if it’s going to save your ass with your wife!ā€ But he wouldn’t show me the house. And I know it’s bc he was at that female’s house. He knew I would see some female shit in there. So then he breaks up with me , turns off his location , and blocks me on everything! And spends like $300 while up there for like 5 days. He was going to Dave and Busters, restaurants etc. When I finally got a hold of him ā€œhe said it was him and his homeboys just hanging out, and that he had to pay for them bc they didn’t get paid yet. ā€œ but it looked like some date type shit with the bitch! But he preceded to tell me that he wasn’t lying, it was a prank , but he’s breaking up with me bc of the constant arguing and he has no more fight left in him and that he’s not going to keep trying to prove that it’s a prank to me. Just a bunch of excuses! He swears there’s no other women and he’s leaving because of the fighting. He’s such a gaslighter and manipulater. Even after all that has happened and his actions afterwards .. he swears I’m trippin for even being pissed and not trusting him or his dumb ass friend. And guess what? We share the same phone plan so I see his calls and who’s on there??? That same number. Called multiple times a day. And I’ve confronted him about that too , and he swears she’s a friend and has a man and child of her own. But BS! They’re on the phone for hours and sometimes at 4am and even 8am etc. If she has a man , her man isn’t letting her have phone calls with another man that long or at those times. He’s a fuckin liar! Being pregnant , I’m so hurt still. I know in my heart he’s lying but it still hurts. I just can’t believe he’s treating me this way and acting like the victim. Honestly, I’m writting this post for other’s options and insight. I’m definitely dumb for trying to make it work after the two times he cheated on me and now I’m learning the hard way. I’m definitely so stupid for taking him back. But I would love all the opinions from you ladies. What you think about his story, What you think is going on, thoughts on his friend , etc. Just your thoughts on any of it. I’ll take the rude comments too because I know that I basically asked for this shit to happen smh.

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