U ask a man to step.up and get called controlling

Whats with the men of today they just want instant gratification and to be cared for. I told my man if he wants me to listen to him then he needs to handle his.life and take care of his business. Then one night he blows up at me im a terrible partner etc. Yet i keep his life running..... almost 9 weeks preg with my 3rd.... well fuck boys will always be fuxk boys i guess. Hed rather live in a basement masterbating than have any responsibilities. Go live ur best life my man go.