This man sent me a picture of his bare ass— Wtf?

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I’m 26, he’s in his 40s for context. We’re not dating, but we have been Vibing and just talking. In the middle of all of that, he sent me a picture of his naked butt.

Keep in mind this guy is about 200 to 300 pounds..

I’m a female, I’m only 93 pounds. Not like the weight really matters but just add some context.

Would you consider this a red flag?  Like a possible DL person?

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I don’t care how big or small he is 
I don’t want to see no man’s ass… like what. 
My first thought would be he took the pic for another man because what woman wants a hairy ass pic lol no thank you

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Was it completely unsolicited? Do yall talk in any way that would make him think that may have been an okay thing to do? Or was it completely out of left field? Thats just creepy and disgusting if it was out of nowhere like it sounds

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Idk if he’s dl or not but it’s definitely a red flag and gross. But so are men who randomly send penis pics.

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That’s fucking disgusting.. If he EVER considered you as “his lady” or even a “friend”, it’s insane that he’d do such a thing to a woman. Maybe he’s trying to live his secret life through you and hope you “bit the bait”- I couldn’t imagine if you complimented his arse or said anything about it, how fast he’d spread his shit.
That’s absurd, ew.

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I wouldn't consider it a red flag for a DL person… I would consider it a red flag for an idiot lol. Who does that?! He sure did give you the moon lol sorry I had to 😂 ￼￼

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His weight has nothing to do with this. Sending nudes without consent is assault. Whether you’re 93 lbs or 300 lbs. So yes, it’s a red flag. Not for the reasons you’re saying though.

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Do you guys send nudes? Or is this the first time? 
Not sure what his or your weight has to do with this or why you’re asking if he’s gay.

This man sent me a picture of his bare ass— Wtf?

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