Help:(

Hey girls, just a rant and advice really on what you would do.

Me and my other half have been together 7 years and have a daughter together and he has a son from a past relationship.

We have him every other weekend but every weekend my other half goes to football, golf or somthing so never spends time with us or his son.

My partner doesn’t do anything to help out in the house, he occasionally puts a load of washing on, I pay all the bills. He pays for the sky tv so he can watch he can watch the football. Every night he’s on the Xbox and I mean every single evening. He never tells me I’m beautiful or I look nice and doesn’t show me attention unless he wants sex but then gets moody when I say no. When I’m on my period he’s not interested in me at all.

He never wants to do anything family orientated because he’s either at football or golf at the weekends or Xbox in the evening. We haven’t been on a date in 5 years!!! He doesn’t play with our daughter and she always tells me daddy doesn’t play with me. If I go out with my friends(very rare) he gets so moody and arsy with me.

We never just sit and watch tv together or anything.iv tried talking to him about it but he won’t and just ignores me and goes on the Xbox. I try and text him about it and he ignores me too. He doesn’t bother messaging me in the day and asks how I am or hows my day or anything!

Another thing is I want another baby and I know he won’t help as he didn’t with our daughter but I’m fine with that and he’s been putting it off for the last 3 years saying he’s not ready or just blows of the conversation and will never talk to me about it. I want another baby as I’m only getting older and he tells me he does but won’t say when. Also iv asked about our future and marriage and stuff and he says he’s not interested in marriage and doesn’t believe in it yet he proposed and was engaged to his son’s mother?!

I love him so much and I don’t want to be alone but it’s really getting me down now and affecting my mental health. I just don’t know what to do.

Also just to add he’s SO shady with his phone. Won’t let me see it, touch it, he takes it everywhere and he’s cheated in the past so I’m worried he could be again..,