Boyfriends sister moved in, barely works and won’t pay rent.

Am I being ridiculous if I tell my boyfriend of 5 years that I don’t want to get married until his sister moves out or at least gets a real job and started paying her part of rent and utilities that was agreed upon before she moved in?

1 year ago she moved in, lost her job the same week. Didn’t get another job until October 2024. She was paying us some money but not the agreed amount. She lost that job January 2025. She got another job March 2025 but it is only part time at $15 an hour. She is not looking for another job. The last time she gave us money was December 2024. She’s only paid rent in full 1 time since moving in, which was the first month she lived with us. Her car is also constantly breaking down and I’ve been letting her use mine to get to and from work. Mind you this girl is never without a vape, weed, make up and hair done. She also makes money from her Tik Tok, how much money though I’m not sure.