Can’t agree for nothing

My husband and I have a 4yr old daughter. When it came to naming her I feel I was more excited to do so. I had names that I found and would send them to him . He never went to look for himself and ask me what did I think . Fast forward now I’m pregnant with our son. He wants to name him after him.. the thing is my husband is already a third.. my son would be the 4th.. something that i absolutely did not want to do. My husband was/is not willing to bend . I felt even more so to just give the child its own first name and give my husband’s first name as his middle or even switch . Let him have the first name and have the middle name that I choose. I feel that’s 100% fair in compromising . Well today I brought it up since I haven’t since early March .

I had to go to the hospital on Monday and one of the nurses asked if we had a name.. mind you I haven’t talked to my husband about the name I liked. So I just said after dad . She then ask my husband what’s his name. He tells her.. and that was it . So when I told my husband now he says oh so you was lying when we were at the hospital . I said no because regardless the child will have your name . I just didn’t go in detail because we haven’t talked. He said you should have so you can sound stupid. Now he’s mad and walked out on the conversation.

He literally threatened me with divorce 2 nights ago over petty bs that happened 2 weeks ago .

I guess my reasoning of posting is to see am I wrong ?

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