separating with a 5 month old

We couldn’t do it.. constant arguing, my partner main arguments: don’t show love, appreciation. Mine is he’s ungrateful and selfish. I constantly get told “you don’t do shit” yet I’m a SAHM, I put the baby to sleep every single time, she doesn’t go with did. The times I do give her to him to “relax” he gets mad at me and gives me attitude because the baby is crying and crying and “don’t you hear her???? Finally, get her!!” She’s teething and it’s been ME with LO. Monday night she started 8pm-3am he was just sitting on the couch while I tried to calm her for hours. The next day I told him to go ahead and sleep, he went to bed at 7pm. I was with her, she was fussy 7-10pm. Next morning no thank you, nothing. I sat him down and told him I don’t like how I’m being treated I feel like I’m getting taken for granted. All he replied was, I know you’re never going to try D, you’ll never show me love/ appreciation. So we got no where. He took off his location, told me we will talk when he gets home.

I’m just so afraid about court and all of that, the baby has no bond with him, that terrifies me the most.

She just constantly screams with him and he gets mad because she’s not chill and I don’t run and get her all the time

Anyone have experience?