I really liked this guy but this conversation left me... Icky

I have been seeing someone for a few weeks and honestly I really liked him. But he said some things today that kind of felt like a red flag. My 15 year old was texting me from his dad's house and he sends me funny tiktoks. The guy says "Man. I feel really bad for him. Honestly I feel bad for a lot of young men these days." I asked why and he said "Because we live in a world where he can't scroll past more than two tiktoks before you have women talking about choosing a bear over a man or some woman talking about being cat called or their rape. Or a man did this to them or that to them. Like the hate men are getting is equivalent to how it was back when women didn't have rights." He actually said that sentence. I went "I mean, I don't think my son has the same algorithm you have because everything he sends me is just funny skits but even if he was seeing that he has a lot of friends that are girls so I think it's good if he's able to understand how difficult to be a young girl or woman in this world." He rolls his eyes at me and says it's difficult to be a man in this world too. He also said "Women don't want to fix broken men but then complaint that men are broken. I told him I consider myself a feminist and I want the world better for everyone. I said my son has been through some horrible shit in his life and just because I want him to understand women specifically are going through doesn't mean I don't want the world to also be better and safer for him. I got him in therapy because I want him to work through things because I don't want him taking his trauma out on his future wife(or husband if he ends up swinging that way) but also because he deserves happiness in himself and peace and healing. Not just because of a potential future partner but mainly for himself. He just kept saying other things that rubbed me the wrong way like how people call the Tate brothers sex traffickers but aren't trying to arrest women who do only fans and it's just become clear that our views don't really align. He's also not really an influence I want to be around my son because while my son is a good kid and I feel like wouldn't listen to someone like him, this guy's also has stupid opinions on mental health and we've been to a LOT of therapy to work through some things and I don't want that undone with his weird opinions. Would it be selfish to cut this off.

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