Omg why dont people understand

Okay so im expecting twins...a few weeks ago (33 wks) I was 1+ dliated and the baby was really really low and the same day I went into preterm labor and let me say I was in pain from the contractions. Thank goodness they got them slowed down , gave me steriod shots and then I was able to go home. I was still having contractions but not that close together. They gave me procardia to take and it worked some but stopped working so I no longer take it. Im now 35 wks 3 days and was checked yesterday and at 3+ cm and almost fuly effaced. Yes the contractions over these two week have gotten a lot more intense but I manage. My Dr did say if I went into labor that they would just go ahead and deliver. Well my husband family is driving me crazy because instead of understanding that the longer I carry them the better they just say they cant beliebe my Dr is making me suffer and they need to deliver my babies because Im in pain....!!! Ugh!!!!