Generic cheating topic: who to blame.

The cheater obviously, yes.

But

When the "other woman/man" KNOWS that person is in a relationship, IMHO they are almost just as bad.

*example* There was this girl I used to work with, she slept with my friend "A" (in a relationship with his now wife at the time, yes he's a shitty person, we're not friends anymore.) But everyone knew he was in a relationship, then she slept with our supervisor, who is married and ttc. (Yea he sucks too) she saw my husband and asked my friend "A" who he was and commented on his attractiveness, "A" told her he was my husband (which did not matter to her) and she shrugged like whatever (A told me about it, then told her I'd probably kill her if she looked at him again) ANYWAY "A" was a friend of mine, we worked in the same division, she did not, she worked next to us, (I kept him from cheating on an entire work trip, I wasn't interested in him, he was a DOG) BUT she would always give me dirty looks and call him over when we talked or come over and interrupt us and flirt with him, I'd audibly gag and walk away. Everytime.

So my point is, can I blame her too? I mean I do regardless, but would you?

She knows they're in relationships and she goes out of her way to hit on taken men. She utterly disgusts me. I've seen a lot of them turn her down, kudos, and I know a few who didn't. But still. Is that not appalling behaviour?

Yes, they cheated, they are wrong, but she is still a bad person for disregarding their wives.

If a married man hit on me and I was single and he was freaking Liam Hemsworth who I love, I WOULD TURN HIM DOWN out of respect for Miley.

I'm on anon because I personally know a few people on here and don't want them questioning this.