Christians opinions being attacked

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I responded to a post asking if I whole heartedly submit to my SO. I responded saying "Yes my husband is the leader, as God called him to be". You would not believe the comments I started getting. People commenting telling me how sad that is and how I'm the reason women still aren't equal to men. Also telling me that "people like me set us back 100 years". 
Truthfully, I think sometimes we would be better off 100 years ago. God didn't make women to be equal to men. Our husbands are supposed to be our leaders and the head of the household, he wants us to submit to our husbands. It doesn't mean we can't have opinions, but our husbands get the final say after prayer and consideration. 
What do all my fellow Christians think on this topic?