What's more weird while in a marriage or relationship?

Question

Currently separated from my husband. I was told I was weird for being open about who I talk to and where I was going because he decided to keep some girls a secret from me. He claims it wasn't secret because it just wasn't a big deal. But then I found out he was going to lunch with other girls and not telling me that because once again it wasn't something he needed to mention cause it was nothing. It just really bothers me because to me not saying anything or hiding that kind of thing from your spouse tells me there's a reason to hide it. Anyways was just seeing what other people thought. Thanks.

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I don't get it. My boyfriend knows about pretty much all of my friends... Why marry someone and then try to hide your life?

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This happened to me when i first started dating my now husband.   I had a guy best friend. It was nothing more than that but my husband felt weird about me hanging out with a guy all the time. Understandable. At first I wanted to hide it just so that i wouldn't lose my best friend but eventually i realized telling the truth is always better. So i told my friend the problem, he got upset and we are no longer friends which broke my heart but it was the right thing to do. I respect my husband, even though it was no more than a friendship i would feel weird if my hubby was hanging out with a girl best friend.

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truthfully, i think he is cheating

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If you two are separated I don't think you're obligated to tell each other anything about who you're dating.

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I find it crazy that 82% of people have answered that it's more weird to be open about your friends.

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Oops! I read it as which should you do: open about friends or hide. That's why I said be open

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Totally answered that wrong. It is more weird to hide your friends.

What's more weird while in a marriage or relationship?

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