So ladies I was discussing TTC with the DH tonight and he told me he thinks I should just chill out and not do SMEP. I then went on to explain to him that a woman only has a 12-24 hour of getting the one egg fertilized and timing was crucial. He didn't believe me so we debated then I whipped out Google. LOL needless to say he researched and read and then sat back and said "wow I had no idea! I thought y'all released all of your eggs like we did our sperm!" Hahha I said "I'm not a fish!" Could you imagine if my body released it's 300-400 eggs at once?! Haha men....!!! now he has agree that the planning makes sense and he will be willing to try SMEP if the next few months don't get us anywhere. I'm totally not freaking out about not concieving yet because I'm now only into month two, but I'm glad he better understands the process and realizes it isn't so easy after all  :)