Is it to young?

Question

So I was 20 on the 20th March.... my boyfriend will be 21 in August...... on 19th March we found out I can’t have children... my Fallopian tubes are damaged with tares and holes all the way up both of them.... we have been offered to have ivf, we want to do this in September 30th on the day of our 5 year anniversary... we have our own big flat with a big one bedroom... so we know we would have to move by the time the baby is 2.... do you think it’s to soon? We have been ttc for 4 years now :(

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I think that if you guys have a good plan why not. I was a 16 year old single parent and I literally worked and attended college and had my own apartment. So screw what anyone’s opinion is bc yours is what matters and as long as you love your child and provide for him or her it doesn’t matter how much you have. I started off will little but at the age of 27 I now have my own car, own house, have graduated college and I did all this with 2 kids and I’m going on my third. And your not doing this alone. Plus a one bedroom is ideal while a baby is little and you can always find something bigger down the line. Good luck and baby dust

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y'all started ttc at 16?..  It depends how stable you are.. we waited to have kids and I'm personally glad we did.. I feel I'm a much better mama at 29 than I would habe been at 20.. but if y'all can afford IVF and have it together then it could work..

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I don't think you are to young. my husband and I are 20. we just finally got pregnant after a year and a half of trying. But every one is different. like another commenter said, it depends on the parent for how ready they are. I only had a 20% chance to get pregnant so we are grateful to be where we are at.

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Is it to young?

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