He only wants to have sex when I’m ovulating

But we are actively avoiding pregnancy..

It’s like a turn on for him to have ‘risky sex’

I should mention that I’m not on any form of birth control.

Anytime I mention having sex and I’m NOT ovulating he isn’t interested. To the point that it’s hurtful. Like I get you have your kinks and all, and getting girls pregnant/ watching porn with pregnant women/looking at photos of pregnant women is like your ‘thing’ but damn dude, some people wanna have sex during other times of the month. I swear it’s like this chore or unenthusiastic performance if I’m any more or less than three days from ovulation.

What gives?

Anyway just wanted to rant and talk about how frustrated I am sexually.

Thanks ladies.