Is it normal not to argue in a relationship?

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My husband and I have been together for coming up to 5 years although we’ve known each other for so much longer.
We are both very laid back people, live for one another and are very much on the “same wavelength” 
We have never had an argument or a cross word and people think it isn’t normal (not that I care, I’m just curious as to what others think)

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I think it depends on why you do not argue. If it is because you just really do get along that well and agree about everything, good for you. If it is because you are holding things in to avoid arguing, that is less healthy.

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If it’s because neither of you will give an opinion or take a stance on something, then yes, there’s something wrong with it. 
If it’s because you two happen to have the same thoughts on everything, then no, nothing wrong with it. 
I find the latter more unlikely. But I don’t know you nor your husband.

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Gosh, I wish me & my husband didn’t argue. But then again I have heard it’s not healthy to not argue 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Me and my husband have maybe had four fights in five years

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We are together over 4 years, living together most of that time, married a little over one. We rarely argue. I can think of two occasions, but it’s how you resolve issues that matters. Never go to bed angry mentality. 
Sometimes I’m like how did I get so lucky, but I also worked hard to be a nicer person, I was an asshole in my early 20s, and he says he had anger management issues that I’ve never witnessed because he worked on that years before we met (will it matter next week mentality worked for him). We never would have worked out before we made ourselves happy.

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As long as you still are communicating and address any issues its totally fine. People dont have to fight and argue about everything. Don't let other people shake your confidence. It's your marriage not theirs and if you and both happy that is what matters.

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My husband and I have been together a much shorter time (only a year), but we don’t really argue at all either.  If we even disagree on something, we typically fix it before it escalates.  We also are both very laid back and very much on the same wavelength.  I wouldn’t say it’s normal to not argue, but I definitely don’t think there’s anything wrong with it.

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It depends. If you’re healthy communicators then no. Occasionally my husband and I will have a quick little bicker if there’s a misunderstanding and one of us is grumpy. But it’s fairly rare. When you love someone and that person loves and respects you on the same level, communication becomes your biggest asset. Love and understanding goes a long way. 
On the flip side, if you’re just avoiding real problems then yes.

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Me and my husband have been married a year and a half. Together for 7 years before that. We've argued maybe 3 times in the entire time we've been together.

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It’s normal in my marriage 🤷🏻‍♀️ like you we are just generally chill laid back people. We rarely ever argue maybe a couple of times a year and we’re usually over it within a couple hours

Is it normal not to argue in a relationship?

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