Anyone else feel like child support is a load of BS

I think it’s ridiculous that a man can share 50/50 custody, willingly buy anything their child needs or wants, and has the child just as much as the mom, yet he’s ordered to pay extra money from every check. Like why would a woman go and put a man on child support if he willingly takes care of his child? It’s like women just do it out of greed. Even if you do it because the man doesn’t want to raise his child it’s still stupid. NO ONE should be forced to pay for a child that they don’t want. Women have the options of abortion or adoption so why can’t men get away with not taking care of their kids?