Ex’s New Girlfriend

So my ex and I have been broken up for a year now.

I’ve moved on with someone else, and recently he has just moved on too.

We had a horrible relationship, he made me hate myself everyday just because I’d been with men before I’d met him (he’d only been with one other girl intimately before me...(they were together from high school).

I was never “pure” enough and he’d make me feel like I was “dirty” and going to cheat on him.

While we were together (long, LONG, story short), he absolutely destroyed me in every way possible:

emotionally, physically, academically, career, dreams, friendships.....

I gave up everything for him, from becoming a journalist to a cleaning lady.

It took a year to find and become myself again from before I met him, and still not quite even.

When we broke up (because I finally had enough), he had a “nervous breakdown” and his family blamed me and the story goes on.

I’m glad he’s moved on so now I’m free from him and the guilt that he wasn’t mentally well while I got my life back, but it’s not him moving on, it’s who he’s moved on with that’s bothered me.

He’s moved on with the supposed town bike... who is 10 years older than him, has a kid in high school, has all these male “best friends”, rough in appearance ....

Not to bad mouth the girl, but it bothers me because she’s all the things he said he hated and for 2 years would drive me crazy about and made me feel horrible about, all things I wasn’t, only to end up with a girl like that.

It’s like, he ruined my life to end up with everything he destroyed my life for.

He ruined my life for nothing.

It’s like a slap in the face!

Am I over reacting to be upset about this?