Where's the "single/rejected and pregnant" group?

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Congratulations to everybody that's carrying a miracle inside. Now ladies, I understand we all have our stories to share and each one is amazing to hear about. I can't help but wonder though, if there's a group for women like me on this app, i.e "single/rejected by partner for being pregnant". I'd like to know how others in situations similar to mine are coping because I'm at my wits end. In the last six weeks, my boyfriend of 4.5years has hurled more insults and hurtful words than I have ever heard in my life...more swear words and disses than you can find on an Eminem album. He's turned into a complete selfish monster I don't recognize. He blames me for it all and says I'm ruining his life by keeping this baby. I'd rather live with the guilt of having "ruined his life", (seeing as he's wasted 4.5years of mine anyway), than live with the guilt of getting rid of my precious perfectly healthy little one.
But funny enough, even without an apology, I already forgive him...he just doesn't know it. What the hell is wrong with me? Is there anybody out there interested in forming a support group here on the app to share some coping tips, PLEASE...😔

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Just want to say that I admire you for sticking to your guns, and fighting for your baby. Screw him! You go, girl.

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Single maybe but YOURE NOT ALONE!!! Hope you can connect with others on the app who are in similar situations! Sending y'all good vibes✨✨✨

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Get out while you can! Your baby is feeling you current stress right now. Not healthy for you and the baby. Plus your going to have less time to concentrate on your relationship when the baby comes. If the baby is not his priority now, it probably won't be his priority in the future.

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Sorry this is happening to you. I think that if there isn't a group that you should definitely start one..

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You can create a group if you would like. ☺️

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I took a physcology class years ago and my teacher was a social worker for adolescents. She had a case where a young boy was locked up and was not fit or safe to be out in society. He tried to murder his parents. When she went to interview his parents she found that they lived in a beautiful home they were loving kind parents. His father was actually his step father. She asked the mother where the boys biological father was. The woman began to sob and tell her story how the father called her terrible names beat her through out her pregnancy until he beat her so bad and left her for dead. How do you think this young boy became how he was. Hearing tne abuse in his mother womb. Feeling his mothers emotions. GET OUT.

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You cant help that you love him but think of your little miracle. Would you really want those horrible hurtful things getting told to your child? Im so so sorry you have to deal with that horrible excuse for a man. Ne careful he doesnt get physical n try to harm you or the baby. I have a friend who her boyfriend tried to get rid of the baby himself by beating her because he wasnt ready for a child n it would ruin his life. She was able to get away from him n her baby was okay but you NEED to be careful

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I agree there should be a single moms section! I'll try to provide feedback somewhere, we all should.

Stay strong girl- you don't deserve his bullshit. And forgiveness is for you, not him. He doesn't even need to know.

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I don't have much add, but... Seriously, good for you for not having an abortion, nobody should ever be manipulated into taking a precious life. Stay strong, dear

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Hi! I'm in a very similar situation to you! Maybe you can look me up on Facebook and we can chat, idk if we can message back and forth on here.

Where's the "single/rejected and pregnant" group?

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