He’s slut shamming me

Me and my ex broke up 8 months ago during this time I went to go get std tests and HPV. Since HPV isn’t till about every 3/4 years it was time. The last time I got it was with my ex before him and I was good. Me and my recent ex were together for two years. Broke up and this is when I went to get tested, it came up positive.

After doing tests I was negative for cancer cells

Me and my ex rekindled and I told him what happened and he’s calling me a slut, he doesn’t want to work on things anymore. I’m 25 and I’m so depressed, when I spoke to the doctor he said it wasn’t a STD it’s common in woman, men just can’t get tested for it. I keep throwing up because he made me feel disgusted with myself

Was I stupid for telling him??

To add- the guy I was “dating” during this time was completely understandable and told me he understood this was common.

My ex keeps calling me a hoe.

How does he know he didn’t give it to me???

I just can’t take this right now