advice please )):

my boyfriend, who’s a year older, and I got together 2 months ago, on october 4th, but we have been friends nearly 2 years before that. to keep y’all up to date, I’m so fucking happy with him. Everything has been amazing and we love each other so much. The thing I need advice on is that.. he doesn’t exactly do anything. he stays at home all day, everyday. I knew that going into the relationship but I figured once we hit a certain point (let’s say 6 months or so) I would bring it to his attention. because I’m currently a college student, who plays soccer, and lives 7 hours away (yea we’re long distance lmao). so obviously I’m busy all the time and he respects that, but I really want him to at least do something. although I have to put a disclaimer, he’s dealt with depression and have experienced a suicide attempt in the past. so of course I have been patient, but my parents don’t exactly understand nor did I tell them because that sort of thing isn’t something for me to say. that’s his personal business that I shouldn’t tell the entire world. with my parents somewhat knowing his situation they make small side comments about him and like it gets me mad because it should be my happiness that comes first ??? but at the same time they have a point, we’ve had talks of the future together but.. how is he going to achieve that ?? idk just lately it’s been bugging me on a whole other level. it’s just stuck in my head. I never thought to break up with him over not having a job but.. i guess im having second thoughts ?? ahhh i don’t know anymore. I’m so in love with him that it hurts to even think about us not being together. my dad say I should go out and experience college without being tied down but none of the guys at my school compares to him,, the only thing is that they’re actually trying to get something out of life. the right thing would talk to him about it but i just don’t want to sound like a bitch because hell... just cause I’m in college doesn’t mean i have my life together.. so please )): any advice I can get because this has been affecting me very negatively.