Mother In Law getting highly annoying

Sooo it’s all in the title! Ever since my daughters have been born I’ve been feeling like she’s trying to parent my parenting and I don’t like that shit. There’s be soooo many different situations where she’s asking “ is that out on correctly”, “ don’t feed her no more then five ounces”, “ what’s the temperature in the house” basically you get the idea. Yesterday was the ultimate for me when my daughter was sleeping and her pacifier clip was on her bib. She called during FaceTime and my husband showed the baby to her. She then told us to “ do her a favor and remove it” I’m completely upset with myself for not putting her in her place yesterday during FaceTime but I do not want to disrespect because I know it’s gonna come out ugly. My husband got bothered as well but he keeps saying that’s my mom basically justifying her overbearing behavior. I think I’m ready to actually just confront with this shit cause it’s bothering me big time. Any advice??