SAHM, QUESTION...

Soo I’m a stay at home mom to a 3 and 1 year old.. my boyfriend works 7-5 job m-f ... today he made me feel like shit because I don’t cook every day and I don’t make him breakfast and lunch... he tell me if he pays the bills I should have the place clean and have cooked meals every day... I just need y’all a opinions... is he right? ... also I have depression and anxiety so some days I just feel like shit.. but he’s never been depress or anything so he doesn’t get it... he say I don’t ever do anything.. but I mean if I clean it’ll be a mess in two secs cause my kids will just take toys out and stuff...

I’m going to talk to him tonight... because it isn’t the first time he’s brought it up... everytime we fight he always bring something up about him paying the bill for everything and it makes me feel terrible.... any advice on what to do or say to him??? Please...

(He expects to have the place clean and cook every day ... while I deal with two kids too. And i usually cook just a few time I don’t here and there because it’s hard some days.)

Also if I were to leave him alone with our kids he’d go to his moms so she could help him.