Father’s Day is ruined

So, today sucks! My husband and I haven’t really been on the same page lately. I feel like he yells at the kids all the time and he hardly shows them much love or attention. I brought it up to him the other day and I said that maybe he should pick his battles and not yell so much. He pretty much took it as me saying “you suck and we don’t like being around you” but I definitely didn’t mean it that way. I just want everyone to be happy.

Anyways, we don’t have any kids together but he has a 5 year old from his previous marriage and I have a 4 year old from my previous.

So, today is Father’s Day and my daughter made him a card. He got up this morning, spent forever taking a shower and getting ready for the day. She held that card for almost an hour just waiting for him to come down the stairs so she could give him a hug and say happy father’s day. When he walked past her I guess she held up her sippy cup and asked for something to drink and he goes “you can get your own drink” and just walked away from her… she ran to me crying so I held her and get her some milk… and even tho he hurt her feelings she says “dada need his card” so she runs to get the card and he’s about to walk out the front door so I stopped him. She gave him the card and he just goes “thanks” and then walked out the door. She stood at the window and watched him get in the car. I went out and asked him where he was going. He was like, I told you I’m going to have lunch with the guys from work…. I’m like, we cooked for you and she made you a card and you’re just leaving… He claims he told me he was having lunch with friends but I don’t remember ever having that conversation. I’m honestly just really mad at how he has been treating the kids and our poor communication lately. Things didn’t used to be this way and I don’t know what has changed. I don’t know what to do about it. I honestly will not stick around much longer if he doesn’t start treating my daughter better like he used to. I love my husband but my daughters feelings will always come first. I’m just so confused on why this behavior is happening. I have no idea what to do.