Am I overreacting ?

I’m currently pregnant with my second baby. I’m 17 weeks. All throughout my first pregnancy, one of my in laws would tell me EVERY time she saw me “your belly doesn’t look as big as you make it look in your Facebook”. She did this until I hit 30 weeks. I wear flow-y tops because I’ve always been insecure about my weight, so of course it won’t look as obvious until I’m further along.

Well being only 17 weeks, I’ve posted maybe 2 or 3 “bump pics” when I do updates on baby (we’ve only been posting since 14 weeks), because I didn’t with my first and thought it’d be something different for this time. NOW she always asks me “do you push your belly out for pictures on purpose?” I would react different if she was joking but she seems dead serious. Just because I can hide my “bump” with sweatshirts and looser shirts right now doesn’t mean that I’m faking how big my “belly” is 🤦🏼‍♀️ My “bump pics” are with shirts completely lifted, I wear baggy sweatshirts because I get cold easy. After once or so, it rubs me the wrong way to keep insinuating that I’m just looking for attention online basically.