I have no idea how to keep kids safe

I have no idea there's no handbook for mother's sexual abuse prevention and signs of abuse.

There's a ton of cases of child abuse and the children don't talk so how do you protect them. There's also oral sex abuse and no one talks about that

A famous football player was assaulted when he was a child at a friends house and it happened while playing a game so I don't know there's tons of men that have been hurt as children and they didn't speak up at churches, boy scouts even men in the military saying it happened as adults.

So you teach children right from wrong and safety but children are also obedient with coercion (candy) and fear .

I just don't know how do you protect children