Rips and tears

Hi everyone,

This is my first time posting on here. The last couple times I’ve had sex with my boyfriend I’ve been in some pain. It feels like my cervix is being ripped from friction and i can’t shake it! Sex hasn’t been fun for me lately and it’s 100% taking a toll on my self esteem. I noticed I had a tear at the opening and I need some advice!! I recently got off birth control to regulate my hormones and the condom doesn’t seem to be my friend. Please send any stories or insight!