Friendship problems

I’ve been bffs with my girl friend, let’s call her Sarah, for 6 years and it’s kind of just idk. I’m frustrated with her right now. We both are pretty good at talking through shit when we are disagreeing with each other on something, big or small. We’ve been through A LOT together; her crazy ex she was with for years, her new bf (whom I very much dislike, he’s douchey but she doesn’t see it 😪) and her being here for me while I dated and married my now husband. She hasn’t been here much after I gave birth though, I mean we talk but we haven’t seen each other in a literal year. I got frustrated with her because when we would talk I would ask about everything, including her dog and she wouldn’t even ask me much about my baby, the literal light of my life, and it almost would feel like she was grossed out about him. So I distanced myself and she could feel it and called me out about it and I told her why. We talked it out and everything was great since.

Then my husband and I finally decided to make the big leap we have been planning for years, to move back to his home country. We got the push from some serious neighbor problems and for our safety we realized it’s just time to leave and make our dreams a reality. We have a month to move. So Sarah and I decided to make a plan to meet up at my place. Right now I’ve been in the middle of absolute chaos with everyone wanting to get together all at once, selling everything and packing necessities and on top of that, taking care of a crawling 8 month old who wants to get into everything and our house isn’t baby proofed anymore since we sold everything. Life is beyond crazy (that’s an understatement). So the day came for Sarah to come over and another great friend of mine had reached out wanting to come the same day as Sarah that I had made plans with. Sarah had originally made plans on a different day but switched it a couple of days before, even though I had told my other friend she could absolutely come if she was available. So they both texted me at the same time wanting to come over and they both know each other briefly so I thought it would be cool if they came at the same time if they were comfortable with that. So I messaged Sarah and she immediately was annoyed with me and told me she was going to reschedule. My other friend was excited for Sarah to also be there. I agreed that Sarah could come over another day and I could tell she was still annoyed so I tried to reschedule my other friend for later in the day and I tried to call Sarah but she didn’t answer, and then she said I was being harsh for getting annoyed that she wasn’t answering my calls. She said she was emotional and I understood and basically told her to call me when she was better since talking on the phone solves our problems. She mentioned coming over later and that she just couldn’t talk on the phone while still emotional so I wasn’t going to beg her to talk. I thought it was a liiiittle ridiculous she was so upset over something so small. There were times She’s had friends come over after I had driven over an hour to her place and i got over it. I wasn’t doing this on purpose but I’m really freaking busy and it was a scheduling error and she switched the schedule on me. I couldn’t just cancel and pick favorites. So I didn’t reply because I was waiting for her to call. She never called and never texted me and it’s been 2 weeks. I have 2 weeks left before we leave to live in another country and she wants to leave off like this. I really did try to work shit out but I can’t force someone to talk to me and I won’t beg them to come meet my baby. She knows I’m leaving and it’s annoying she would get so mad for something that seems really silly and easily fixable. Thanks for reading if you made it this far