Tldr how do I fuck with his head?

So I’m on the up with a guy I thought I was on the down with, but he’s a Katy Perry song. Hot and cold.

Play by play:

We were texting as friends for months

He started flirting with me

We started sexting

He asked for nudes and I sent them (I never do that)

He went cold and got quiet

He went warm again and we ended up in bed

He went cold again and it hurt my feelings

He went warm again and we ended up in bed again

He went neutral and has been sweet to me over text

He bailed on a casual coffee date—bc of his kid.

He started sexting me again last week and nudes were sent.

Says he wants to see me again just very busy doesn’t know when.

I know what this looks like. Before I give up though I want to see if I can use this as a learning experience and flip the script. Is there a way I can get him to chase me now? I’ve known him for almost a year and I feel like he wants me to play with him and I just don’t know how. Yes he’s being a douchebag, but the situation doesn’t have to be a total loss. Advice?