Need advice..
Okay, first and foremost I am madly in love my with DH, but he is so money hungry. For starters he did agree to pay all the bills, etc while I went to school. So I haven't had to work for a year so I could get through cosmetology school. For everything he has done I am so grateful. Without him my dream wouldn't have been fulfilled, so a big part of me feels horrible for being upset right now. I recently graduated and am now working. All the money I make I have to bring to him and if I get any out of his wallet (eg, $10) he flips out. He keeps tabs on how much of MY money is in his wallet. When we got married almost 3 years ago and mind you I was 21. He wanted me to sign a prenuptial aggreement before he would finalize the wedding date. I feel like I have to hide even the silliest of things from him. I feel like I am a child being rebellious under their parents roof. Granted in the past I have proven myself to be untrustworthy, but I am meaning years ago and I have never cheated on my HUSBAND! Yes I may have trouble saving money atleast not as well as he does and I feel it's hurting our marriage. That was the only way he would start TTC was if I learned a budget (which is understandable) and started saving money better. Like I said I understand because you need a solid foundation to survive on. I am not bashing that in any way. I just thought i was married and not living with my father. Am I being too ridiculous? I definitely do not expect him to have to always provide for me we are both adults and should act as such, but I don't make him hand over his pay checks. Should I even waste anymore time in this marriage? Please help. I couldn't imagine my life without him, but as I sit here typing in tears I can't help but think that truly deep down I am not happy, especially him if he feels he has to keep track of everything I do and will not even let me manage things on my own. Yes I have sat him down and tried talking several times, but everything always falls back on me and is always my fault. Feeling pretty hopeless.
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