Should I go to the bridal shower?! What would you do?

Sam💫 • Miscarried first pregnancy early March 2015 at 5.5 weeks. Expecting our rainbow baby Feb. 2016 ❤️
I was invited to a bridal shower for my in laws friends, sons, fiancés bridal shower! I have never met the son or the fiancé. I don't think I need to go, but the problem I have is my sister in law who also doesn't know them is going. 
Also if I don't go, do I need to send a present? (Again asking since I don't know the girl, but my in laws do)

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